Good Guys for Guys-The Gift Giving That Causes Regret


I’m going philosophical today, I hope you will bear with me, the reason being that so much have been said about gift-giving but I honestly think, it is necessary to dish out this little advice to you.  I understand the title is a bit conflicting; it is done for a purpose-to ensure that this important message gets to you.

Sincerely speaking, there is a way you go about this gift-giving stuff, and it will result to regret thereby defecting the main reason and purpose for the gift. Now let’s get down to the main gist

Pressure
When you are forced to buy a gift or you feel you are under pressure for any reason to give a gift, it can cause regret. Pressure is not a good platform for giving. Don’t force anybody to buy gift for you direct or indirect and don’t allow anybody to force you. One thing about giving good gift that comes from the heart is that you rejoice after giving- no matter the quality.

Expensive gift
Most people regret after presenting an expensive gift to their recipient. Any gift you don’t willingly give, no matter the quality, amount and quantity, can never be effective. The best gift idea for guy is not determine by the amount of dollars spent. Just because you don’t have a lot of money, it doesn’t mean you can’t get your best friend the awesome gift he deserves. There are plenty of inexpensive good gift ideas for guys and gals.

Giving to impress
Whenever you give to impress or to showcase your financial status- as in to show your recipient that you are richer, the end result is regret because most times expectation proves abortive. Even if your expectation is achieved, hence it’s not natural but done out of pride; the realized expectation would never last.

Borrowing to give
Borrowing to give is another thing that causes regret especially when you are not in a position to pay back. There are several kinds of gift giving-cash, kind and materials. If you can’t afford any, don’t borrow to give.    
Cheers,
Nathan

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